For the girl that still believes in love

This is for the girl who still believes in love. 

Daughter,

For I know the plans I have for you. I hear you, I know you are tired of waiting. No, it is not too late for you.

Breathe, for I will provide the right man in my perfect timing. Do not get consumed with social media, for it is not reality. Remember, people only show highlights of their lives, but never the reality of it.

Daughter, stop comparing yourself to other women. No, it is not because of your body type or looks that you are single. There are still some things I need to uproot out of you. Marriage is not a fairytale. Though it is beautiful, it also requires hard work.
How can you expect to cover your husband if you are barely learning to cover yourself?

My daughter, please be patient. In the same way I am molding you in my hands like clay, I am molding your husband.

For now, I need you to focus on you. I need you to grow deeper with me. No man will ever care and love you the way that I do. How can you know that man truly loves you if you have yet to experience that love with me?

Daughter, things take time. I have a plan so big that I can not just give you to anybody. 

And no, it is not because I love your sister more than you that I allowed her to be engaged/married before you.
It is the time in which I approved of their union. In the meanwhile, be genuinely happy for people. 

Your time is coming, but what are you doing in the meantime? Are you going to therapy? Are you healing from past trauma? Are you learning to cook? Are you elevating your spiritual capacity? Are you working on the assignment I have given you?

I love you daughter and I desire marriage for you just as much as you do. But, will you have the grace to sustain the blessing?

In due time, it will be your turn. Trust the process.